Name:Mohamad Taufik Bin Zainuddin
I/D:16308
Group:15

        A ROMANTIC LOVE IS A BASIS FOR A MARRIAGE

What I think about romantic love in marriage. That they go hand to hand. I think without romantic love the marriage will end on a disaster. Because, in the order to get a girl, mens have to be romantic. Romance is an important trait to have with a mate, but I would argue there are other things that need to be establish on top of romance.  51% of marriages end in divorce, most of that 51% are ending due to other reasons than romance. All marriages are not ending like Tigers marriage ended.  Few divorces are ending due to lack of romantic love,is that right?.Are you agree with me?.

Firstly,before I further more,what is romantic love actually?. Romantic love can generate many powerful feelings. It can provide a profound ecstasy, and a deep suffering when frustrated. To some people,romantic love is irrational. Romantic love can seem like an emotional storm. Love and romance have been the inspiration for thousand of songs through history most of the hits at the billboards are love songs and the best well known actors earned their prestigious position thanks to love movies, romantic scenes or passion scandals.L-O-V-E , four letters,2 people, obe life along with other values like respect, solidarity, honesty, patience, loyalty and friendship complemented with communication trust and most important : passion and stability.

          Romantic love is a good basis for a marriage because people who are in love are considerate of each other. We have differences of opinion, but we listen to each other and work things out. Romantic love is also a good basis for a marriage because it keeps the relationship fun and spontaneous. I still bring flowers to my girlfriend and write her poems and send her notes. She is always surprising me because she and I are still in love.This is the best reason,why romantic love should be apply to the loser person which fail in their marriage and relationship so that they will not despair and give up to search for love next time.

               Furthermore,romantic love is a better basis for marriage than a lot of other ones people use because one can get happiness with it. People who marry for money often find that it does not make them happy. My friend married a girl to get China citizenship, but I go to visit them and it is sad to see how they live. There is no love in the house and no happiness. Most people never learn how to sustain a loving relationship. The reason is simple. Nobody showed them. The mere fact that a man and woman feel love toward each other does not guarantee they will be able to create a joyful and rewarding life. Love does not automatically teach a person communication skills. Love does not teach a person how to resolve a conflict. Love does not teach people how to weave their love into the rest of their life.But,romantic love that come from the sicere soul will curb all the wife and husband problems.

On top of that, the second universality of the romantic loves explains love as naturally immanent to the human , that is romantic love involves the creative use of someone ‘s mind . This can be viewed from the aspect of intrusive thinking about the concept of love and the emotional dependency on it .This can also be explain when we consider the use of songs and folklore which tend to highlight the primary motivation behind romantic love .Considering “dating ‘ where two people are said to go on a date or being in a regularly dating . The whole essence of that is in romance aspect of it . Most dating in the contemporary world requires the creativity of the partners so as to be able to demonstrate their romantic feelings.Proven,romantic love will bring on more pros than cons to the couple of wife and husband.

          In conclusion,I really agree that romantic love is the basis for the marriage.Thus,the wife and husband should have a romantic love to maintain their marriage in peacefulness and happiness.Having a good family is the dream for every person and the husband especially should play an important role to make their family better.And the wife,don’t sulk for seldom.Take care of your husband heart and he will always love you  forever and ever.